Everyone dreams for success in her/his personal life, and everyone wants to be successful, but for some reason, this success is not achieved. Many people try to find out why success is not coming, many people put all the blame on fate and sit back.  

Personally, though the definition and interpretation of the word ‘successful’ are different for everyone, everyone gives the meaning as it is to them. In general, success is the name of fulfilling the goals of life. Success is found in the full development of your happiness, health, security, love, wealth, relationships, etc. 

Sometimes it feels like nothing is going on right in life. Sometimes there arises some situations when you feel helpless and feel like all the control is out of reach. All of these factors can, of course, slow down your success, but in addition to these, there is a serious possibility that you are holding yourself back. 

No one can help you if you try to hold yourself back. The way to success is a long journey and it is the process of reaching a particular destination. If you ever get stuck in this journey, it is your responsibility to get out from it and start again. 

I’m sure that there are one or more of the following reasons why you may not be successful in one area of ​​your life. If you try to find that reason or the reasons with utmost importance, you will see that you have found the solution to your real problem. 

The first and foremost reason for not being successful in your life is to resort to excuses. The disease of Excusitis is affecting almost the whole World today. The disorder of excusitis makes a huge difference between ordinary people and the ultimate successful people.  

Some excuses are very common to almost everyone, such as the excuses of health, environment, age, money, family problems, etc. If you suffer from any of these ailments of excusitis, it is normal for you to be unsuccessful. 

People who have no plans for life and no purpose in life are always busy making excuses as to why they didn’t do it. All of these individuals are reluctant to use the word “excuse” as their weapon. 

If you study the biography of any successful person, you will understand that they had a lot of excuses, but they have succeeded today because they did not do it. If the ailments of excusitis cannot be cured then thinking of success means you are having unrealistic fantasies. 

Another ailment for not being successful is blaming others. This attitude of blaming something else or someone else for your own failure is another major obstacle to your success. You have to take responsibility for your own life. Blaming others for something means demotivating yourself and you will not get anything positive in your life from here. 

If you can take responsibility you will become an administratrix. Great success can never come in that way in which everyone is moving. So take responsibility to think of new ways to do something new. Blaming others will make you feel lighter and less stressed, but it will motivate you more to not succeed. 

‘I will not do today but tomorrow’, this attitude delays your success and even does not allow you to succeed. If you procrastinate on any task, that task will gradually become complicated for you. Your mind will have the opportunity to think a lot of negative and complex thoughts about the work, which is enough not to get the job done. 

Procrastination occurs when you do not have a complete idea about the task, do not have a specific plan to do the task, and do not know what you will achieve after the task is completed. Before doing any work, make specific plans and make a clear picture in mind, you will see that someone is inspiring you from within to do the work. If you have a tendency to procrastinate, it may be too late for you to take the first step, and many good opportunities may be missed out. 

The meaning of success is not clear to most people, that is, they do not have a specific goal in life, also It is not clear what they want to get in life. Today you think you will do a government job, then tomorrow you will think about business, this hesitant attitude is enough not to succeed. The subconscious mind will only be able to lead you in the right direction when it has a definite goal. 

The most common reason for failure to achieve success is not defining what success is for you. In these cases, whenever you see a successful person in one field, after a little bit of progress in that field when you see a new person succeeding in another field, you step on that path. Instead of chasing after other people’s success, make it clear to yourself how to see success in your eyes, what is successful in your terms, and what is your own passion, it is very important for success. 

You’re working hard, you’re not procrastinating, you’re not making any excuses, yet success isn’t coming, it means you can’t take action properly. There is no such shortcut way to achieve success, it can be achieved only by taking consistent action in the right way. If you are not prepared yourself and even if a miracle happens in life the success will not last for you and you will have to go back to the old place. 

Your thoughts and plans will be realized only when you take massive action in the right direction. Your relentless efforts can lead you to success. There is no substitute for taking action. You can not travel far and wide in bed, you have to make arrangements, get out of the house, buy the necessary vehicle or flight tickets and you have to travel. Only by taking the right action, a good result can be produced, and the goal can be achieved. 

There are two types of people, one type of people who think about problems and another type of people who always think about the outcome. People with the ‘problem thinking’, always think and discuss the problem more, naturally, this type of person has a negative mindset. The more you think negatively, the more you think about the problem, and the more problems will appear in front of your eyes. The tendency to move away from the problem is present in each of us. And by running away from this problem, we get lost somewhere far away from our goal. 

People who are ‘Outcome Thinking’, in of hundreds of difficulties, try not to deviate from their goal, they always try to find the opportunity. Outcome Thinking People have a lot of self-confidence and they have enough self-control and they never get emotional. They always think about the outcome until they get the end result even whatever happens to them. Since these individuals are focused on a specific goal, they remain steadfast in the face of any challenge and are able to overcome it using their presence of mind.