Self-actualization is a psychological process in which a person can make himself creative, constructive through personal evolution by using the most of his own abilities, resources and mental energy. Self-actualization is the process of becoming ‘self’ by developing one’s full potential. 

A primary component of this process is the full realization of personal potential. The more a man is aware of his potential, the more he can be prosperous in his life. Most people can’t reach this concept which is at the top of the “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs”. 

The basic human needs mentioned at the lowest level of Maslow’s hierarchy of need are physiological needs, that is, we need food, shelter, air, water, clothing, sleep, etc., without which we cannot imagine living or even to survive in a very short time. Keeping them at the lowest level of the hierarchy of needs means that they are our cornerstones, without them our life is non-existent and we cannot even think of reaching the next level of the hierarchy i.e. safety needs. But thanks to the Universe, all these most important resources for survival are abundant in the universe. 

After these basic needs are met, what we need are safety needs. It is absolutely our personal needs like personal security, employment, good health, property etc. As soon as our physiological needs are met, we seek safety and security, so we focus on employment, savings, nutritious food, wealth growth. 

The third step in the hierarchy of needs is love and belonging. It can be called ‘love and connection’ in another language. Whenever we feel safe and secure in our lives, our third need comes to the fore, we go out in search of love, looking for a like-minded person. The first two stages are the most challenging for us, every time we come out of this adversity, the needs gradually increase, the need to get a soulmate, the need for mental and physical happiness, the need to satisfy the need for sex. We become attached to others in emotional bonding to fulfill these needs. 

As soon as the third need is fulfilled, the fourth need is born in our mind and that is esteem. Gradually, our self-esteem increases, we give importance to the achievement of name and fame. 

Surprisingly, most of the people in the world get stuck at this stage, no longer have the mindset and desire to reach the final stage, because the steps up to this point have much more significance and much more enjoyment.

At the highest level of the hierarchy is our self-actualization. According to Maslow this is the “desire to become the most that one can be”. This is the actual purpose of life. If advanced to this stage, freedom can be enjoyed in all aspects of life. This stage is not only independent living but also a collection of extreme experiences. Generally, self-actualized people are very responsible, humane, warm-hearted and accepting. These individuals are self-motivated and focus mostly on growth and contribution. 

Only the most financialy successful people in society are self-actualized, don’t entertain such false beliefs. I have already said that the number of people who belong to this stage is very small, so even after meeting all the needs of life, many people cannot be happy and so suffer from depression. 

Self-actualization is a specific process by which self-realization can be achieved. The following steps are very important for self-actualization. 

I have asked many people in my training and coaching sessions what their purpose in life is and as far as I can remember no one has been able to give a correct answer. To achieve self-actualization, knowing what your purpose is in life is crucial, actually what you want to serve. Go beyond the traditional way of life and ask yourself for which great purpose have you come to this world to achieve and to serve? This realization will help you achieve self-actualization. 

Even if you get everything you want in life, you can’t be happy if you don’t accept yourself and people don’t accept you. Don’t be arrogant, be down-to-earth, be hearty, kind hearted person. 

For success or to reach the stage you are at, you personally had to face many challenges, many storms, but somewhere someone was with you, or at least the Universe was or is with you. Be thankful for everything you have received, learned, experienced. Be thankful to everything that has contributed to smooth your path in life. The day you can do this, you will become self-actualized.

There is no greater satisfaction, no joy, no greater duty than to rise above personal interests and reach out to people and contribute to this society, this world. So elevate yourself to this level, the meaning of life will change.