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Are you depressed about wondering how to deal with the frustration?  Do you miss the happiness and joys of life?  Do you feel like you are going through a difficult situation?  Are you looking for a way to overcome the current challenges and want to become happy and prosperous in your life?

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There may have many happy events in your life, you have had happy moments, but you have lost them.  Maybe you have become restless thinking about how to be happy and prosperous in life. 
Here we will not only talk about bringing happiness back into our lives, but we will also learn how to be attentive, feel encouraged, and feel energetic from within. 
Yes, you can make yourself one of the happiest person in this world again. I know you must be thinking “How can I be one of the happiest people in the world again! I don’t have enough wealth, I don’t have enough money, my love has left me, my business is not making a good profit, I am too much busy to cope pressure of family and work, my child is not concentrating on studies, etc., etc. Different kinds of thoughts may run through your head. 
Now tell me, if the cause of your unhappiness is one or more of the above-mentioned incidents, is there no way to come out of them?  Or is there nothing in your life that can make you happy?
When I use the word ‘happy’, your mind starts to search for the reasons why you are not happy, but there are many things in your life that can make you happy. If I come to explain it according to psychology,  I will first mention that happiness is one of the greatest resourceful states of our mind. It is true that with this state of our mind, we combine the various objects of the external world, but in fact, happiness is our inner wealth. That is why external objects are not so important when it comes to being happy. You can leave the key to this invaluable resource box, which is inherent in you, to something or someone else in the external world, or you can keep it in your own hands, whatever you choose. If it is controlled by an external object or person, the lack of them will make you unhappy. An external object or person can never be permanent for life, ups and downs or adequacy-inadequacy will remain there, and accordingly, the graph of your happiness will also be controlled.
Let us now take a closer look at this important topic of how to feel happy from the inside.
Your mind is the treasure of your happiness, so first of all you need to re-program it. If you feed good thoughts to your mind, it will give you back good feelings. What kind of thoughts do you have most of the time that affects your happiness most and at the same time how you are perceiving any event, what meaning you are giving in this regard, and the feelings that are generating in your mind are constantly affecting your mental state. In other words, you are actually becoming what you are feeding to your mind, your behavior is becoming like that. 
If you want to fill your mind with beautiful creative thinking, then you need to develop some new living habits like reading books every day, rising early in the morning, doing yoga, meditation, etc.. These are very powerful tools to bring back peace and happiness. If you do these things regularly, you can feel quite energetic. 

Take care of your health: 

The body and the mind combine to form a system by which we are governed. If one part of this system is not supporting it will influence the other.  If your body is not fit, no matter how much you feed good food to your mind, it will not accept them, just like when you have a headache, you feel uncomfortable at your dear friend’s marriage party. 
So in order to keep yourself healthy, you must make small changes in your daily routine and keep the exercises there. Add yoga, exercises, running, or sports to your daily routine.  Wake up early in the morning and get a little out of the house.  The calm breeze, the open air, the open sky, and the open environment will make your mind much more fresh and captivating. Along with this, follow a healthy diet. 
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If you feel upset or demotivated at any time, immediately change your physiology and bring it in a positive body language, i.e. shake the body, widen the chest, straighten the neck and head, and you will see your mind shift to a resourceful state. 

Strengthen these two pillars to bring happiness back to life and pay close attention to a few small but very important things.

  • 1) Increase contact with inspiring people and completely abandon those who humble themselves or tell stories of sadness.
  • 2) Listen to music to keep your mind fresh. Listening to music is a very powerful way to keep yourself happy. Music activates the stimulation system in the brain very quickly.  By listening to music, and avoiding unnecessarily wasting time on social media, your happiness will wake up from within. 


  • 3) Isolate yourself from any negative news or criticism.  These create thunderstorms in the mind and commotion in the mind. Negative news and negative events program your mind so negatively that your mind becomes busy searching for the same things in your real-life situation. Whatever you are looking for it will come in front of you. 

  • 4) Most of the time keep yourself busy in any activity. There is a lot of productive work throughout the day, there are many things to be done on your personal development, keep yourself engaged on those things, and you will see that negative thoughts will not come to mind.

  • 5) Re-live your past happy moments, recall them again and again. Another way to enliven your happiness is to reminisce about your beautiful memories.  Whenever you have time, sitting alone, on a journey, or taking a rest, think of an event in your life that made you happy, and you will see the joy has come back to you automatically. 

  • 6) Watch cartoons, comedy serials, or videos whenever you have free time. Laughter/ comedy TV serials, movies, or cartoons are very effective for the instant awakening of happiness, there is no substitute for it. Whenever there is a lot of negativity in the mind and feel restless, just watch a comedy or a cartoon movie, and your mood will be changed very quickly. 

If you are happy in life, everything may be changed. Most of us live under the misconception that ‘ achieving success, finding love, earning money, having an expensive car or a good house can make life happier, and some people spend their whole life dreaming such hope. 

In fact, if you are happy then success in your life will come easily, and the person of your choice will come running to you for love. You can easily earn any materialistic thing starting from money. If you are not happy then even the people closest to you will move away from you, no matter what level of success you have, it is bound to fall down from there. 

Even if you have a lot of money, cars, and houses, you may not have the mentality to enjoy them, you will feel everything like thorns. It will yield a very bad effect on your body and mind. Your anger will grow continuously, you will suffer from depression, and anxiety, and you will become physically ill. So, from this moment on, take conscious responsibility to keep yourself happy, then you will become prosperous. 

About

Santanu Ghosh

Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Relationship Counselor

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