The first and nobel goal of each of us should be to become our best self. The first step to success is to improve yourself and bring out the best in yourself. Otherwise, even if we succeed, it will not take long for us to get back to  miserable life.

The best version of yourself is to awake the restrained power of your mind, to build your confidence, to be focused, to control your mind completely, to get out of bad habits. Gain ability to withstand against any external forces, ability to face any challenges in life.

I believe in the word “we have all the resources we need”. Yes, of course, each of us has that quality, that ability.  We don’t just nurture them, we don’t try to enhance them. Each of us has in store infinite love, a sense of self-esteem, the ability to win the battle of our own lives. We have all the resources to reach the pinnacle of success.

                                                                           

You can never expect different results without reforming and improving yourself. It is quite impossible to achieve double income with same effort and ability.  To improve your relationship is impossible unless you change yourself.  Your health will never improve if you do not change your old routine, do not have time for exercise.

Each of us has the different way of life.  One’s dreams, emotions, skills, ideals, self-esteem, thoughts can never be matched with of other’s. So the first step in becoming the best version of oneself is ‘finding out who you are and what you want’. I will discuss the rest of the steps later.

Imagine your otherself is sitting in front of you. Ask him out well all these questions from your otherself. Want to know, what you are interested in doing?  Whose presence gives you the most joy?  What impact do you want to have in this world?  Why can’t you do what your soul wants?  What are the obstacles?  Are you afraid of anything? Feel all the answers and accept them honestly.

Free yourself from all the limitations of belief: You are stuck in your own limited believes. You must break your misbelief about your abilities and how much success you can achieve. Limiting beliefs and negative thoughts limits you and the main obstacle to your being the best self.

‘I’m pretty good at what I’m doing’, get out of this comfort zone.  Faith empowers people, gives them the spirit to work.

                                                                           

Change your bad habits:- One of the most complicated tasks is to give up your bad habits. Because some bad habits become our unconscious pattern, seem to be normal. For example, waking up late. Suppose you wake up every morning at 7 or 8 o’clock or go to bed at 11 o’clock at night. Many will say that ‘I can do good work or study at night’, it is impossible.  Everything that happens throughout the day tends to haunt our brains, making it very difficult to focus on any given task at the end of the day or at night. We can be very productive in the morning when both the environment and the mind are calm.

                                                                           

Self decipline:- One thing we often hear is ‘hard work is the only way to succeed’, somany people work hard, are they all successful?  Not at all. Work with discipline and self-control is the strong pillar of success.  Discipline and self-control will make your work much easier and simple.

To maintain self-discipline, you need first to create a healthy routine for every day, and atleast Six Days in a week must be maintain that routine. Never unfollow the specific routine on any excuse. In the routine you must include exercise, study time to gain knowledge and must have time for your entertainment.

Control the fear:- Fear is the most poisonous and disguised enemy. Fear is the biggest obstacle in the way of becoming your best version try to overcome it. In most cases, we have unreasonable fears. We are afraid to take action in the future by enhancing the event of what has happened in the past.