Marriage is defined as the legal or social union of two persons, especially a man and a woman, as partners in a personal relationship. ‘Marriage’ is the other name for a relationship, where two persons acknowledge each other in mutual consent. This bond is a relationship of legal and social responsibility towards each other. It is usually an interpersonal relationship where primarily sexually recognized or approved, but marriage is more than a physical bond, forms of spiritual and emotional bonding. 

Why marriage is important: 
The relationship in the name of marriage is the beginning of the family and grows together in selflessness. A good marriage relationship gives you a good friend, a life partner who will be with you forever. Through this bond one gets close to someone who loves unselfishly, trusts completely, accepts co-operations, and sincerely and supports everything. 
Everyone in human life should have a person who will be by their side in happiness and sorrow, who will be the companion of success and failure. In the progress of one’s life, for happiness, peace, mental strength, such a life partner is desperately needed. An all-time partner in life makes a person a lot more energetic, guides anyone in the right direction, gives him/her the mental strength to correct mistakes and move forward. There are companions in married life who promise to be by each other’s side.

Reasons that lead to broken marriages:
Not every marriage becomes eternal, heavenly and beautiful. Sometimes this relationship becomes just formal and remains the relationship by the name it remains. Many couples in this modern age are struggling to save their marriages as well as the divorce rate is quite significant. Many couples have a tendency to struggle but to retain the relationship; many are directly separated again. If you look a little further back, that is, in the early 1900’s, you can see that the chances of getting to know each other before getting married were scarce. After looking at it for a moment or two, they had to decide and choose their life partner. Even if a completely new person had to be accepted as a life partner, then divorce would not happen so much. Obligation as well as domination was a thing of the past, but human beings had a lot of flexibility, the ability to adapt to each other, and tolerance. 

In this modern age, with the pressures of work, people are losing patience in financial struggles. There is also the pursuit of endless entertainment and the greed to rise up quickly by cheating each other. Many options are available even to satisfy physical hunger. For all these reasons, people are reluctant to be flexible. Basically, all of these things create more common causes that lead to marital discord and break up the marriage, e.g.

1.  Lack of trust.
2.  Not taking proper responsibility.
3.  Not taking genuine interest to each other.
4.  Lack of honesty.
5.  Criticizing and blaming each other.
6.  Marital crisis, physiological factors.
7.  Neglecting and disrespecting each other.

The negative impacts of marriage discord: 
Let’s take a look at the effects of marital strife in life

1.  Mental turmoil.
2.  Insomnia.
3.  Social stigma and even discrimination.
4.  Physical illness.
5.  Reluctance to eat.
6.  Increasing stress.
7.  Increasing anxiety and depression.
8.  The financial crisis.
9.  Trauma to children in the family and to others.
10. Increasing Anger, sadness and suffering from emotional distress.

These are probably all familiar to couples who decide to split up. Married life becomes a scar for them that they carry throughout their lives. The traumatic events of married life consume them from the inside. Sometimes the bitterness in a marriage life grows to such a point that it is necessary to get out of it, or else one may have to give up one’s life. I personally believe it is better to get out of a bond that doesn’t have sweetness; a bond that isn’t emotional; a bond that doesn’t have real love. 
Remember that the end of a married life does not mean the end of life. There are many more opportunities in life; there are many ways to go; there are many milestones to be achieved. There are so many men and women in the world who have achieved great things in life despite breaking up their married life.
But if you take certain steps and responsibilities from the beginning of your married life and follow them properly, your married life will be much happier.

Which is more important to stand in the marriage life:
The following steps must be taken to build a wonderful happy marriage.

The first is ‘Trust’: The most important thing in married life is trust, not breaking each other’s trust or hurting trust. In order to have faith, you need to talk openly with each other; you need to share everything with each other. Minor lies or avoiding events hurt faith. 

The second is ‘honesty’: We must have honesty with each other. Everyone tries to prove themselves consciously honest but do you know that even if you artificially try to prove yourself honest in front of your partner, your partner will automatically understand if you are not really honest. So if something unwanted happens, share it. You can be very honest about it and your marital life will become beautiful. 

The third one is ‘Flexibility’: Flexibility is crucial not only in marital life but also in all relationships. Each of us has different belief systems, values, and past experiences, so there can never be 100% consensus and this is where flexibility comes into play. If you blame each other for their faults, you will have a broken marriage. Instead, be flexible enough to accept him/her as he/she is, and the conflict between husband and wife will be resolved. 

The fourth one is ‘Respect’: Always pay respect to other they deserve. Never slander your husband or wife in front of others. Whatever happens, discuss it privately. If you want to make someone your own, you need to respect him/her as much as you love. Paying respect will give back more respect, values ​​towards each other will increase, as well as acceptance.

Fifth is ‘Genuine interest’:First, there is a lot of happiness and peace in almost every married life. This is because of genuine interest in each other, interest in getting to know each other; interest in talking to each other; interest in spending time together. When gradually these decrease, they move away from each other. Have a genuine interest in each other to strengthen the marital relationship, lest it happen, your life partner is talking about something, and you are busy watching mobile or TV. 

Sixth one is ‘Bring innovation in life’: It is the nature of every human being to look for something new, so to bring this trend seriously, bring innovation between the two, may it be food, going for a walk/tour, wearing new clothes, that can be anything. Especially when the two of you are spending time together, lonely, meeting intimately must represent each other nicely, use new fragments, use new clothes. 

I know all of you hope for a happy married life. I wish you ‘all the best’ through this writing. I wish you a happy married life. There are very few people in the world who, by programming their minds alone, can overcome the turmoil and bitterness of relationships and lead their lives towards success.